UPSHUR COUNTY - CREMATION OR CEMETERY? Gilmer -- Funeral services for Philip Tousley Graef, 63, of Gladewater, will be held on Monday, August 17, 2015, at 10 A.M. at the Calvary Baptist Church in Gladewater with Pastor David McGee officiating. Born on May 22, 1952, in Dallas, Texas, he died on Monday, August 10, 2015. He was a motor winder and a member of the Calvary Baptist Church in Gladewater. He is survived by two sons, Dylan Graef of Gladewater and Justin Graef of White Oak; and one sister, Sharon Graef Browning of Dallas. The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 P.M. on Saturday, August 15, 2015, at Grubbs-Loyd Funeral Home in Gilmer